Your First Kiss
The first kiss is the real trial for a person. It's uneasy to kiss someone for the first time, but when this barrier of embarrassment and indecisiveness is crossed, there comes the real bliss. But how to deal with the issue in order your first kiss to bring you and your partner happiness and pleasure instead of disappointment?
The main rule here is not being afraid to be shy. If before kissing someone for the first time your heart misses a beat, your knees are shaking and your palms are sweating, it's normal, don't be afraid of these sensations. Don't rush into kissing, start with kissing your partner's arms. In such a way you have a splendid opportunity to beat your shyness. Plus it will make your lady feel that she is very special for you.
Don't be afraid that your partner may dislike your way of kissing. There is neither right nor wrong kissing. If a girls likes you she will find the way to let you know how she would want you to kiss her in a non-offensive way. And if she doesn't like you – why would you need kissing her, right?
The best way to understand that a girl wants to kiss you is observe the way she looks at you. If she looks around without being able to concentrate her attention at you, she is scarcely into kissing. But if she looks right into your eyes without misplacing her look – it means that she feels comfortable with you and really wants you to kiss her.
Do not rush the event of your first kiss, don't kiss for the first time just because all your friends have already experienced the first kiss – wait for something special and your first kiss will reward you with the most pleasurable emotions ever.
There are many possible reasons why we kiss starting from pleasant emotions and sensations it brings finishing with desire to practise the art of kissing which is represented by a myriad of nuances and special points requiring much time spent on their investigation and practice.
Plato used to call kissing the ‘exchange of love between the two souls’. Nowadays medical specialists call a kiss some sort of spasm which involves around twenty-nine muscles.
They call it French kissing because most people in most countries associate the French with the nation of virtuosos when it’s about the art of love and sensuality. In French this type of kissing is called ‘the kiss of souls’.